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Friday, November 30, 2007
9:48 AM
a topic which many would just touch and go without really having a conclusion about this 'wide' topic.
one of my very good friend, got into this situation whereby someone had challenged him to fight. something went on like this. this particular guy, because of some words that my friend said agitated him and was very unhappy about him went to confront my friend(who had no intention to badmouth him, according to what he said) and wanted an answer from him. with the temper of my friend, he was also unhappy about that guy trying to pick on him.
so things went on and that guy called many down and have 'backed up' against the one of my friends, now check this out, some of the 'back up' are both that guy and my friend's friend, get the picture?
so things ended up with that guy started the fight with a blow and ended up both absorbed some punches. question here, is ther any ending to this problem? No, they both have no nswer and onl make things worse by engaging the fight.
time for some noble talks. i came across tis book " letters to my son" written by this great author, Kent Nerburn, and this is his opinion about fighting(well i hope i did not infright any copyrights, haha). "do not fall prey to their logic that says you are less then they if you choose to walk away rather than fight. ..... .... they choose to identify their manhood with the capacity to overcome that fear by fighting rather than by some higher good such as the ability to care for the weaker or the ability to express gentleness. suppose you were to fight them and win. would you be more of a man?"
well, it seems quite vague when i just quoted some phrases in the whole topic of fighting, i wish that all guys could read this book. it also talks about fight that you must fight, but for the sake of others' lives and the fight that will bring harm to families.
by engaging in fights, you have already lost, so the outcome if you win or lose doesn't matter much. it only helps to put stop to the issue.
well, not that i side that friend of mine, but what he does i do not think is fully wrong, in the sense that he did not challenge that guy for another round of punching and bashing.
i wouldn't deny the fact that i myself also get into some violence to subdude some of my friends, but i hope they all understand that it's purely having some entertainment, with no hard feelings attached. but when it comes to real thing, i hope i would not get myself into such adversary.
let's hope that this ga-ga would be over soon.
& I'm being random.
Thursday, November 29, 2007
7:08 AM
Mm... today didn't went for tuition for one of my students, all for the sake of the never-ending, unfinished projects.
the whole main thing today was the weird temper of my mum. alright, i admit i overslept and already skipped one of the lessons, but i don't really see the reason for her to be worked up and claimed not to bother any of my stuffs. Wow, isn't that nonsensical?
Out of courtesy and politeness, i told her that i was going out at night to meet Kaili for a chat, she didn't even respond and act as i had never exist in the house. i guess that what she really wants, to have me out of her picture. Ha, she got what she wants!
let's see how long she wants it to maintain it this way.
& I'm being random.
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
9:34 AM
well, let's talk a little about St John since i just came back from a training camp which just ended quite recently.
till date, it's already my 6th year in the organisation, moving to 7th the next year. However, there's always something to keep me going though the thoughts of ending my service popped up to me.
St John had caused a very big impact on my life, be it character, interpersonal skills, relationships and friendship. i just have so much so much ties with it till i'm already bonded with this organisation, to be specific, to this corps, East View Corps.
before attending this camp, i had the mindset that this camp will be last commitment to the corps and organisation. due to school, work, friends and surrounding doesn't seem fit with sjab.
but this camp i realised that it's not me that i should only think about, the officers who are in need of help, the teacher in charge whose on fire for the cca, the cadets who have the willingness to learn, the faith the parents gave me to leave me to mould their child up to be a better person and the friends i gained in this extraordinary corps.
well, i'm sure i'm not that noble to cultivate the young to be a strong and knowledgeable person, but at least i would try. the reason to stay would have to be the platoon that i'm taking now, Bravos. i want them to be a batch of capable people who are able to bring this corps to the next level, a level yet known, a level that East View gonna experience a big change.
i hope this little help that i'm giving would be vital to this batch of potential leaders, followers and team players.
hope that this decision to stay on is a right one=)
& I'm being random.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
3:31 AM
well oh well.... after so many tries of setting up a blog and have the discipline to constantly updating, i've decided to set it up though majority of us were already tired of this invention.
this blog will be kept to keep all my memories i've been through so i wont forget those small but meaningful things that had happened in my life.
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